Sex or sexual intercourse as you may call it is good and it is being ordained or constituted by God for our pleasure and for the purpose of reproduction. However, to be used rightly in an environment specified by God (marriage). The union of man and woman and not man to man, woman to woman just as everything God created is preceded by an ideal environment. He created the earth (Garden of Eden) before the creation of man mankind; he created a firmament before the birds of the air, the sea (water) before the aquatic animals that have their being in the waters. You cannot drive your brand new prado jeep in the lagoon, neither can you buy a ship and try driving it in the highway. When a product is not being used correctly as indicated by the manufacturer, it becomes an abuse, consequently damaging and shorten the life span of that product. Likewise sexual activities is to be carried out in a confined environment (marriage) anything other than these is an abuse of sex, it is detrimental, it is perverseness, and a sin against God and your own body, leaving both partners vulnerable. Little wonders, the sickness and all manners of diseases we are seeing today, little wonders the life span of man are being shorten by day.. Pre-marital sex is known as fornication, any extra martial affair by a married person is known as adultery “flee fornication, every sin that a man doeth is without the body: but he that committed fornication sinneth against is own body, what known ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?” (1 Cor. 6:18 -19) Note this, no know a sexual activity is hidden from God, he knows about your hidden love affair which is hidden from your wife, he knows when you sponsored that abortion. “We must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ: that everyone may receive the things done in is body, according to that he had done in is body, whether good or bad” (2 cor 5:10). God said, your body belongs to him; you are the carrier of the spirit of God, the dwelling place of God, you have no right what so ever to miss-use your body (God’s temple). If you cannot go to the house of a king, president or even the governor and mess it up without being arrested and prosecuted, how than do you think you will not be punished by God for defiling His temple (your body) “if any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroys, for the temple of god is holy which ye are” (1 Cor. 3:17). In the time past, women go to their husband’s house as virgins; this however is still the plan of God for everyone today. Sexual purity is God’s standard. Fornication/adultery dethrones a man and covers a man with shame. Princess Tarma, the daughter of King David was raped, dis-virgin and covered with shame she tore her royal garment and could not go back to the place. (2 Sam13:1 – 19) Samson was a promising child, whose destiny was cut short, owing to his romance with Delilah. Joseph said know to adultery and his dreams became a reality.” For by means of a harlot, a man is reduce to a crust of bread. (Prov. 6:25 – 26). WAY-OUT repent of all sexual activities be determined to remain pure “ marriage is honourable in all, and bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers will God judge” (Heb 13:4) “ I beseech you therefore, brethren by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is good and acceptable will of God (Romans 12:1-2) SAY THIS PRAYER: Lord Jesus I surrender my life to you today, I Know am a sinner, forgive me all my sins, wash me with your blood, write my name in the book of life, today I receive you as my Lord and personal Saviour. Thank you Jesus for saving me. FOR COUNSELING AND PRAYER PLEASE CALL: 07031264211, 08178445500 RCCG PRAISE PAVILION PARISH OKE-IRA OGBA LAGOS STATE.